Trust your senses; boozing no laughing matter

DEAR MISS LONELYHEARTS: I met a funny guy at a New Year’s Eve party and he “joked me” into his life. I was intrigued by this hilarious man. We’ve seen each other almost every night since.

But now I’ve started noticing we’re always having a number of cocktails and more than one bottle of wine at dinnertime. On top of that, he has several nightcaps before bed. He has also started teaching me how to layer a cocktail (he’s a former bartender) and what drinks to enjoy before making love so you can lose all your inhibitions.

He obviously loves his booze. He never drinks before he goes to work in the morning (so he says), but he can’t go a whole day or evening without alcohol.

I finally asked him to tell me about his concerning relationship with liquor and he vigorously denied having a problem. He says he’s a light drinker and never gets drunk. Not true.

The Manitoba government recently held public forums to discuss regulations for Bill 51, the Public Sector Artificial Intelligence and Cybersecurity Governance Act. I was able to participate in the meeting in Brandon and there was also a session in Winnipeg.

I was a bit fired up, ready to rail about data centres and phone terms and conditions and generally give it to big tech. The discussion, however, was focused on what the public sector responses should be regarding cybersecurity, data and privacy protections, and AI usage in government.

With all the recent attention on social media bans, the harms of AI, misinformation and the like, I was somewhat disappointed that these would not be tackled directly in this meeting. Those issues may be discussed at future forums.

At this event, as focus groups developed responses, the discussion between private companies and public governance kept getting mixed in, pointing out the reliance of government services on private companies in running their digital operations. As government operations become more dependent on digital infrastructure and towards AI agency and control, rethinking how technology is implemented may be crucial to our democracy.

I add my voice to Erna Buffie’s Think Tank piece “Democracy is a civic election issue” (Aug. 13) by asserting that democracy is a public education issue. Put another way, this fall’s municipal and school board elections are a test of public education — educating democratic citizens who appreciate our democratic inheritance enough to take responsibility for renewing it.

Voter turnouts for elections in Canada are abysmal. Where there should be 100 per cent participation, it often approaches 50 per cent federally and provincially, 25 per cent in local elections. The explanations given seem insufficient and unsatisfying, as are the reasons given by those who decide not to bother.

Some say they feel disempowered and alienated from the political process, feeling they have no say in governmental decisions which rule their lives.

Others appear resigned to the fact that, if they were to speak, they would simply be passed over or ignored, choosing not to vote because their votes, like their voices, make no difference and count for nothing. Still others say they’re too busy or just don’t care.