Make fewer plans, slow down… enjoy

One of the most underrated tips for travel is to learn as much as you can about a destination before you get there.

Take, for example, my recent trip to Ireland. I didn’t know much about Ireland’s history, but my nephew downloaded a documentary for us to watch during the overseas flight, and it provided insight into the religious, political, and territorial divisions which ultimately separated the country into Northern Ireland and the Republic of Ireland. This gave me a better understanding of the landscape, the people, and the different opinions I would hear depending on where I was. It made me aware of the divide that is prominent in Ireland today.

One of my personal favourite tips is to travel with intent, instead of a checklist. Pick one or two anchors each day for the ‘must-see landmarks’ – and then go with the flow when it comes to everything else. Take a wrong turn on purpose. Sit in a café longer than planned. Stroll though a nearby park. Pop into the gallery you’ve walked past three times. When sprinting from landmark to landmark, you’re missing out on all the other little unexpected adventures. The best stories don’t come from monuments. They come from the moments you didn’t anticipate.

When it comes to another language, a little effort goes a long way. While you don’t need to be fluent, learn how to say a few simple phrases such as “hello,” “have a good day,” “please,” “thank you,” and “pardon me.” Knowing how to say “Do you speak English?” can also be helpful. Knowing a few words of a country’s language can help break the ice, encourage friendliness and improve your overall experience. You stop being ‘just another tourist’ and start being seen as an international guest who has respect for learning about the language and culture.

I have a rule when I travel — To intentionally take in at least one sunrise and one sunset during the trip, from the most scenic spot available. Once, in Las Vegas, I went up to the hotel’s 18th floor viewing deck for the sunset view. In Mexico, I rode a bicycle to the eastern-most point of the island to watch the sunrise. I keep a sunrise/sunset app on my phone which lets me know what time daylight comes and goes no matter where I am. This enables me to plan for those enchanting times of day.

Early mornings are extra-magical. They are typically cooler, calmer, and quieter. You get to see places as they are, without crowds milling about. Grab a hot beverage, take a seat, and watch life roll out at the pace of dawn. While sleeping in is appealing on vacation, I’ve never once regretted getting up in time for the sunrise. (But I have regretted sleeping in!) Even if you’re super-tired, it’s worth it. Besides, you’re on vacation – you can always nap later.

A destination comes alive through those who live there. So, my final travelling tip is to talk to locals. Strike up conversations with bartenders, servers, and shop owners. Be curious and thoughtful. Ask open-ended questions. Listen more than you talk. You’re sure to discover great tips that only locals know, like information about hidden gems, unique dining spots, and community celebrations.

Kindness travels better than any passport. If someone takes time out of their day to share a story with you, pay attention. Thank them. Ask what it means to them. Or what you might learn from it. Digging into the minds of others takes you into the depths of human interaction that guidebooks can’t teach you.

So, the next time you’re planning a trip… make a point to make fewer plans. Leave time in your schedule to do nothing. Be spontaneous. Head to the restaurant where locals eat. Watch a sunrise. Follow the path not taken. Take the road less travelled.

Because that’s what makes all the difference.

This story is the second in a two-part series. You can read the first part here.